Six Middle-Class Habits That Keep You Stuck (And How to Break Them)

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1. Lifestyle Inflation

I grew up lower-middle class. We were never truly broke, but we were extremely careful with money. My mom always waited for a sale or pulled out a coupon before buying anything.

So, when I got my first real paycheck in corporate America, I thought I’d made it. Like—Mama, we solved poverty! I marched into the grocery store and grabbed a $6 pint of Ben & Jerry’s Chocolate Therapy ice cream. For us, growing up, Ben & Jerry’s was peak luxury. That week? I bought it three more times. And that’s when it hit me.

Lifestyle inflation is the first trap.

Most people increase their spending as their income grows. A new car. A bigger apartment. Organic, free-range avocados. But if you spend everything you earn, you never build wealth. You become dependent on that next paycheck.

Nassim Taleb said it best: The three most harmful addictions are heroin, carbohydrates, and a monthly salary. The more you earn, the more you need that bi-weekly paycheck to support your inflated lifestyle—and the shinier those golden handcuffs get.

Break the cycle with the 50/30/20 rule:

50% of take-home pay = needs (rent, food, bills)
30% = wants (entertainment, trips)
20% = savings/investments

This isn't a rigid formula—just a starting point. Personal finance is personal for a reason. Adjust to fit your goals.

2. No Emergency Fund

In 2015, I was interning in Ohio and got into a four-car accident two weeks before I was supposed to drive back to New York. The repair estimate? $5,500. I spiraled—hard.

Then I remembered: I had an emergency fund. And that changed everything.

Middle-class habit number two? Not having an emergency fund.

This is your financial parachute—not your Vegas trip fund or fried chicken splurge money. It’s for when life goes completely sideways.

Here’s how to build it:

1. List your essential monthly expenses: rent, food, insurance, bills.
2. Save 3–6 months of those expenses. If that’s $3,000/month, aim for $9,000–$18,000 total.

Sounds overwhelming? It was for me too. What helped? Financial automation. Set it and forget it. Studies show automation helps people save 3.8x more. It’s been my go-to strategy for years.

3. Paying Full Taxes Without Strategy

Everyone pays taxes. But most of the middle class pays more than they need to—simply because they don’t know better.

Warren Buffett—worth over $130 billion—pays less in taxes than his secretary. That’s not a myth. It’s about understanding legal tax strategies.

Start with:

401(k) (if your employer offers it): Up to $23,000 in 2024, pre-tax.
Traditional IRA: Up to $7,000 (or $8,000 if you're 50+).
HSA (Health Savings Account): Up to $4,150, tax-free for medical expenses.
457(b): For government/nonprofit workers, same $23,000 cap.

Every dollar you contribute reduces your taxable income. And that’s real money saved.

4. Ignoring Career Capital

After college, I thought I was done. No more studying, no more books, no more exams. But seven months into my first job, I realized how much that mindset limited me.

Middle-class trap number four? Neglecting career capital.

Career capital = your skills, knowledge, and experience. The more valuable your skillset, the more you're worth. It’s basic supply and demand: if you have a rare skill that solves big problems, employers will pay a premium.

I taught myself Python while working in finance. What took others three hours, I could do in ten minutes. That made it easier to ask for promotions and raises—and get them.

If you're not building valuable skills, you're capping your income potential.

5. Hard Work Without Leverage

I was raised by immigrant parents who taught me hard work was everything. And it got me from point A to point B. But I eventually learned that to reach point Z, you need leverage.

Leverage means multiplying your output without multiplying your input.

You only have 24 hours in a day. If you're a pizza chef making one pie an hour, there’s a hard limit to your income. But if you use leverage—through code, content, or investing—you can break that ceiling.

Examples of leverage:

Code: Write once, use forever.
Content: Teach once, reach millions.
Investing: Let your money work while you sleep.

If you invest $6,000 annually from age 25 to 65, earning 10% annually, you’ll end up with $2.7 million. That’s the power of smart leverage.

6. Being Comfortable With Bad Debt

Credit card debt is the new normal. People are buying groceries, clothes, and everyday expenses on credit—money they don’t have.

By the end of 2023, Americans hit over $1 trillion in credit card debt. And the average interest rate? 27.9%. That $300 haul can turn into thousands if you’re not careful.

I use credit cards—for the points, the perks. But here’s my rule:

If I can’t afford to pay in full with cash, I don’t put it on credit.

If you’re already in debt, here’s how to kill it—fast—with the Avalanche Method:

Determine your monthly debt budget.
List your debts in a spreadsheet with balance, interest rate, and minimum payments.
Order them by highest interest rate first.
Make minimum payments on all—then throw any extra cash at the highest-interest debt.
Rinse and repeat.

Final Thoughts

You can try your best and still feel like you’re not getting ahead. That’s because most of us are never taught the actual financial playbook. Now you know the six biggest traps—and how to avoid them.

Next, make sure you understand the five financial goals to hit before 30. You can check them out [here].